Q: Okay, my M&D suggested out of nowhere a few months ago I should get a dress ring. We attend alot of formal events and stuff requiring formal attire, and coincidentally I thought I might too. I was just wondering though, do you think it's okay for a straight teenager to wear a dress ring? I'm not sure if many do or not. And if so, what type (as in, what metal: silver, gold, platinum, titanium, etc)? I don't want one with a rock, just pure metal(s). And what do chicks think of guys that wear dress rings? Do they find it hot? Oh, and how much do they cost usually?
A: I think anything you wear should be an expression of your individuality, whether it's clothing, jewelry, or your hairstyle... even the cologne you wear. If you will be the one picking out the ring, keep that in mind, and you should find just the right thing for you. It doesn't really matter what other people think. It's about self expression, and self confidence, and self satisfaction. Don't worry about who thinks it's cool or not. If you don't feel comfortable with it, don't do it. If you do feel comfortable with it, pick out something YOU like! There's nothing wrong with wearing a dress ring, or any other jewelry, for that matter. But you should be the one making the decision as to whether it's something you want, and then, getting what you want. It's all well and good to respect your M&D's wishes and take their suggestions into consideration... as long as you don't leave yourself out of the equation.