Outfit not to look overdressed or out of fashion, yet girly?

Q: As a crossdresser, I am told by my friend that either I look overdressed wearing a dress or out of fashion wearing a skort. What are some outfits I can wear so I am not over dressed or out of fashion. Something with a pair of jeans? I am not sure

A: You should wear a pair of high waisted jeans and a top that is look fitting but not baggy. I don't know what size you are, but if you can fit into Victoria's Secret pants I think they would be a good way to go. They are actually designed to shape your body in a more feminine way and some even lift your bum. http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collection/?cgname=OSCLORISLRI&cgnbr=OSCLORISLRI&rfnbr=3667 And this is the style of shirts I'm talking about: http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?DeptID=50434&CatID=54015&GrpTyp=SIZ&ItemID=1490385&attrtype=&attrvalue=&CmCatId=50434|50435|54015&mscssid=6dd23653be2834fccb8b17622b71ee61bxMnVNoVzayWxMnVNoVzayo200BEB4586FD1C10FF58382A14E35D732AA90824917 http://www4.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?DeptID=50434&CatID=54015&GrpTyp=SIZ&ItemID=14b5b8f&attrtype=&attrvalue=&CmCatId=50434|50435|54015&mscssid=6dd23653be2834fccb8b17622b71ee61bxMnVNoVzayWxMnVNoVzayo200BEB4586FD1C10FF58382A14E35D732AA90824917

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